Unless you live in the middle of nowhere with no TV or internet access, it is impossible not to have noticed all of the noise surrounding social media marketing, particularly Facebook.
Chances are, you have a Facebook profile, and maybe even a Facebook business page, and are trying to figure out how to remain social to build quality relationships, but still use it effectively for marketing.
While effective marketing on Facebook is a mystery to many entrepreneurs, one way that I manage my Facebook friends and who I market to on Facebook is by using lists.
Recently Facebook announced that it had reached 500 million users worldwide, up from 100 million from only two years ago, and at any given time I have around 4000-4500 Facebook friends linked to my profile. The number fluctuates as I accept new friend requests and quietly unfriend some other people.
Facebook friend lists have been the absolute best tool to help me manage my relationships on Facebook.
The first step to using lists for effective Facebook marketing is to create a lot of different lists, so that as you get to know to your friends better and begin to use Facebook as a marketing tool, you can segment and tailor your message, based on the goal of your marketing campaign.
The cool thing about lists is that people can be put into more than one, which allows for even more segmentation and refining of your message. I have lists based on my relationship with the person, where I met them, what type of business they own, where they live, and more.
Unfortunately, I discovered the power of Facebook friend lists after I had been using Facebook for a while. I had to comb through my friends, one by one and perform an audit… reading their profile, assigning them to the appropriate lists, or if their profile was fishy in any way or resembled a spam account, unfriending them. It was a long process because I already had connected with so many amazing people. I highly recommend that if you are not yet using Facebook Lists to organize and manage your friends and your Facebook marketing, you start doing so as soon as possible.
Family and Close Friends – You can create Facebook Friend Lists from three different places.
First, from your Facebook home screen (when logged in), you can click on Friends in the left hand sidebar (image 1 below). Then your can click the button Create List at the top of your friends list on the right-hand side (image 2 below).


You can also start with the Edit Friends option under Account (image 1 below) in the upper right hand corner of the screen when logged in. When you reach your list of friends you have the option to Create New List at the top of the list on the left-hand side (image 2 below).


Once you click the button to create a list in either place, a dialog box will open up (shown below). You can then create a list name (upper left), select the people you want to add to the list be checking them, and then create the list (bottom right)

If you already have hundreds or even thousands of Facebook friends and you are late to the Facebook Friend List game (don’t worry, I was too), there is another easy way for you to assign the new lists you created to your existing friends. You can click on Edit Friends under Account like I showed you in the first example, and for each friend in your list, you’ll see options on the right to edit those friends. You can click on the “x” to remove a Facebook friend, or you can click on the list information to add them to a list, see the lists they are already added to, or create a new list on the spot (This is the third way to create a friend list). See the example below:

You can also add friends to an existing Facebook Friend List, or a brand new Friend List when you accept a Facebook friend request from someone (image 1 below), or send a friend request to someone (image 2 below).


After you create all of your lists, view all of your friends and start adding them to the appropriate lists. Remember, you can put a person in as many lists as you want. Depending on how many Facebook friends you have, this will take some time, but it will be well worth the effort. Once all your lists are made and your friends are categorized and segmented, it is easy to group all new connections you make.
Once you have a significant amount of friends who post regularly, your news feed, or “stream” as many call it, will more likely resemble a rushing river of links, photos, quotes, tips, and of course, SPAM. There will always be those few who just “don’t get it” or purposely use Facebook for blatant self promotion without ever trying to build a single quality relationship.
After all of your lists are created and your friends are grouped appropriately, you don’t need to bother with your main news feed. Instead, you use your lists to check in and interact with your friends and the people that really matter to you. My Client List on Facebook is one of my most frequented because I want to stay in the conversation with my both my past clients and current clients and continue to provide value. If you built good friend lists this will save you tons of time, and put some of the fun back in social media marketing and social networking.
For example…
Facebook Friend Lists have a lot of uses – my favorite is for targeted event invites and messages. I don’t know about you, but I am SICK AND TIRED of the GIANT list Facebook event invitations I receive for events that are completely irrelevant to me and my business. I mean seriously, I can’t go to a luncheon that is in two days in Pennsylvania, or a breakfast event tomorrow in Atlanta. That just doesn’t make sense to get those invitations.
Here are some quick tips for creating your Facebook Friend Lists:
I know it sounds like hard work, but trust me that this will pay dividends in the future.
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This is a fantastic how-to guide for something I really needed to do. Thanks Jen!
Wow, fantastic how to information. Great article!
Hi Jen – Yes, I am actually on FB and love the tips you have provided. It does truly make sense to create lists – Oh, if everyone did it!!
OK…once again I totally love that you tell me EXACTLY how to do something. This has been on my to do list but pushed down because I didn’t want to “figure it out”. Thanks Jen for keeping it simple, you know I love that! Kelli
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Great article! Thanks Jennifer.